Yet Jesus is the ONLY way to the Father!!! I really have appreciated all of your responses, regardless of viewpoint, to the post of the last few days regarding our family’s return to the institutional church. Of all the posts I have written over nearly six years, this one has prompted far and away the most comments via message … people reaching out and making a personal connection with me. The responses have been very mixed … some are offering incredible heartfelt concern regarding my decision to walk away from a local church initially and for such a long period of time … others find themselves almost in an identical place wrestling with a return into the local church … while yet others are finding themselves convicted to walk away for a time. I truly appreciate each of you openly sharing your hearts … being so transparent with me … and in trusting me with your struggles … I will keep them in confidence. Believe it or not … for me personally … I have at times in my life experienced and embraced each of the three positions described above. I don’t really know how long I will sense the leading of the Lord to continue to write on the return to church … that is His choice now. Used to be mine … now it’s His. But I just want to reiterate some prior points and maybe add a few more. I have no regrets for the last seven years … except for the fact that perhaps I was not quite the family shepherd my family needed … I was there and in the midst of family life which I was not before so that is definite improvement. But please don’t praise me because I choose to be a family shepherd … there are miles to go between the choosing and the being … I personally did stay intimately connected on a regular and somewhat weekly basis with a group of men throughout this ‘wilderness’ experience … and in case you haven’t realized it … most of the real growth of institutional churches is not in its numbers and what goes on inside the four walls of the church building but in what is happening relationally and spiritually among its people … in Waffle Houses, in living rooms, over kitchen tables, in phone conversations and yes, even over the Internet. The love and relationships of people who love Jesus, love each other and love those in the world around them are the perfect reflection of the church Jesus is building. If you find yourself attending church every week but are not connected to other believers … ask the Lord if that is indeed His will for you … or does He desire something else? I am NOT advocating ‘Lone Ranger’ Christianity … I did that before the last 14 years … and it does not work. We are designed to need the love of God and the love of those around us and we are designed to give love to God and those around us. The journey is not a solo one … That is not to say, there won’t be times where God may not lead you into the wilderness for a time … so that it might be just Him and you for a spell. I could list all the Biblical examples … but for this post I would simply ask you to consider the OT saint s and prophets who God called to do such … consider John the Baptist … consider the 40 days of Jesus in the wilderness … consider the first days of faith IN Jesus for Paul I shared about yesterday … there are indeed times the Lord leads His people into a place where He can get our undivided attention. If you indeed find yourself with Protestant leanings of any kind, Christian history is filled with saints over the last 2,000 years who stepped out from the institution of church and man’s constraints, many at the price of death that we might meet as we do today and gather as we do and have our own personal copy of the Bible. Take the time to consider two millennia of Christians saints that preceded us. Walking away from a church can be a crisis if you are not walking toward Jesus … and too many choose to walk away from both … my parents being a perfect example. And yet as many of you have also pointed out … sometimes in the midst of church trials and tribulations and disagreements … God simply wants us to learn to live in grace, mercy, love and forgiveness bearing with each other right where we are … He wants us to be Jesus to each other. Praise God for folks who do so … they are indeed the peacemakers of whom Jesus speaks in the Sermon on the Mount. And finally perhaps you and yours have had an incredibly deep, blessed and rich church life and cannot understand why anyone would walk away … praise God with a heart of thanksgiving!!! That is so incredibly awesome … I would like to encourage you to share about your experience here and elsewhere … some of us really need to hear what you have to say. There is indeed only one way to God the Father … Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” John 14:6 NASB And some would tend to suggest that no one comes to Jesus but thru the church … I disagree ... maybe not totally and completely disagree … but the church is not the gatekeeper to Jesus. If you believe the church is the gatekeeper to Jesus, I am indeed open to correction according to Scripture … so if there is indeed error in my understanding I encourage you to offer correction based on that simple ground rule. Yes, our love of one another and the unity and oneness among believers (according to Scripture) is indeed to be a testimony to Jesus and draw people unto Him. Our lives and what is reflected in our lives is indeed intended to be an evangelistic magnet so to speak that draws people in. I am not disputing the need to proclaim the Gospel in word and truth … but the hypocrisy in our lives oftentimes blinds or turns people deaf to the hope and power of the gospel. Every single one of our journeys to Jesus, while sharing in some degree of commonality, is totally unique. If you find yourself in any of the different scenarios I have described above and you sense the Lord’s conviction regarding that situation and what you must do next … test it and be true to your convictions. Of first and foremost importance is to be true to Christ Jesus … when He wants you in the church He is building … He is more than willing and able to do so according to God’s plan, purpose and will. Please consider … a body part without Christ Jesus and the Holy Spirit and without a devoted relationship to the head … will indeed wreak havoc and disease upon the rest of the body. Sometimes a body part must be worked and prepared by the Lord for its place in the body … I would ask that you forgive me also. Many times I have written in this post stating there is only one right way or path to Jesus. I was wrong. Each of our journeys look so different … while it may be clichéd, I encourage you to ‘Run to Jesus … He’ll take care of the rest.’ Trust and believe … that is faith. Be blessed IN Christ Jesus my friends!!! Bernie |